"MAKTUB" meaning "it is written"
In our lives are destiny is "written" or is it? Is my destiny to finish what I've started in school? Is it that I quit my day job, or climb the corporate ladder? Is it I live my life longing for children, or NOT? Who really knows, but I think the first step to know what you are "destined" to do is to follow your heart. Do what it is inside that pulls you, like a magnet... to a happy/fulfilling place. If something doesn't go as planned, then it's a lesson learned. Pick up the pieces and move on.
Worry---what a useless emotion,, what's the purpose? WHY WORRY about things that haven't happened???? You get yourself all worked up over something you don't even know to be true??? How useless is that???
Nothing is easy in life. (well maybe except for sitting on your behind watching reality shows on the tele--wanting to be in someone else's position,, or NOT)
**just thinking out loud**
"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams" --excerpt from "THE ALCHEMIST" by Paulo Coelho (a wonderful tale of destiny)
***if you're interested in getting this book, I put a link under "BOOKS I RECOMMEND" ****